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I hear tiny feet in the hallway sometimes

As parents we welcome the night. It means peace and quiet. The darkness covers all of the mistakes and imperfections of the day.

Bedtime came be the most hectic time in any house. You’re exhausted. The kids are exhausted. You’re thinking about the thousand things you still need to get done before you can end your day.
And then just as you think those sweet kiddos of yours are falling asleep…
They get out of bed.
They ask for a trip to the bathroom, a sip of water, to be rocked, or “just one more story”.
I found myself rocking our 3 year old the other night and thinking about how this seems to unfold.

As parents we welcome the night. It means peace and quiet. The darkness covers all of the mistakes and imperfections of the day. When our children repeatedly get out of bed it’s not just a sign that we’ve missed their bedtime window. It’s also a reminder to slow down.

To stop and not just look, but to really see them. To feel their little hands in yours and feel just how far their feet reach down your body as you rock them. Weren’t they just these tiny little babies that barely fit in our arms? Time is moving fast.
Our children seem to remind me when I need to slow down. On the days I am the busiest, the most rushed, is when they seem to want and need me the most.

Know what? It’s really me that needs them. I need that reminder. I need to look around to make a mental imprint of the moment.

I need to take a deep breath and be thankful for the day.
How do your children let you know it’s time to slow down?
xoxo
–k

Kristina Grum is a Certified Parent Educator who has over a decade of experience working with children, including being a classroom teacher. She currently teaches parenting classes in her local area and writes about shifting parenthood from barely surviving to thriving.


As parents we welcome the night. It means peace and quiet. The darkness covers all of the mistakes and imperfections of the day.

As parents we welcome the night. It means peace and quiet. The darkness covers all of the mistakes and imperfections of the day.

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Kristina Grum is a Certified Parent Educator who has over a decade of experience working with children, including being a classroom teacher. She currently teaches parenting classes in her local area and writes about shifting parenthood from barely surviving to thriving.

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  1. Chris Carter says

    October 7, 2014 at 5:44 pm

    Nighttime is just that- exhausted and rushed to END the day! Although- I snuggle and laugh and tickle and play with my kids in bed for much longer than I ever intend, because that turns out to always be my favorite part of the day. It's where we let lose and love on each other with abandon. I bask in those moments!! And I believe my kids do too…

  2. Lisa Witherspoon says

    October 7, 2014 at 8:04 pm

    Great reminder! I do that too – hurry up and get them to bed so I can relax. I need to slow down and savor those moments.

  3. Jhanis V. says

    October 8, 2014 at 1:34 pm

    Ouch. You know, my son (9yo) when he needs something from me he would sometimes ask "Mom, is this a good time?" or "Are you busy?". I just know that when he does this, he feels lonely. 🙁

  4. Kristi Campbell says

    October 8, 2014 at 3:12 pm

    I love reminders from my son that I need to slow down. So often, like you wrote, they happen when I'm the most stressed and busy which is exactly when I need them.

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